"Even when the rainbow seems to pass right by me....I'm still finding Gold in the clouds....."

22 May 2013

2013 Book Review #20: Summerland


"We would all of us persevere.  We would keep going.  We would move in the only direction we could move, and that was forward."  (pg. 388, c.2012 Summerland)


"....we were all of us finished with trying to predict the future" (pg 380, c.2012 Summerland)

"We had learned that when we looked upon our children, the young heroes and goddesses of Nantucket Island, all we could do was hope.  We knew they would struggle; we knew they would fall prey to the same temptations we did, they would have lonely and sad moments as we did, they would eat too much and drink too much and cheat at golf and slander their neighbors and fail to recycle assiduously and speed on the Milestone Road and do the wrong thing when the right thing was smack in front of their faces, just as we did.  But what we could see as the team filed off the field---some of the kids smiling even in defeat, some of the kids hopping in their cleats because they were so eager to play again next week---was that they had survived with their spirits intact." (pg.387, c.2012 Summerland)

These quotes are taken from the novel I just finished reading this morning. 

What an excellent book. I didn't want this story to end!!

The above quotes were taken from the end of the story and made tears come to my eyes and I got choked up. I am not kidding when I tell you that it is a RARE book/author that can make me do that. The only book I remember getting teary-eyed from is Les Miserables by Victor Hugo (historical fiction) when I read it years ago one summer in college.  And more recently, when I read Steve and Mary Beth Chapman's book Choosing to See. ( Christian, non-fiction)

STORY SUMMARY

It's a warm June evening and many students from Nantucket High are on the beach for the traditional graduation bonfire.  The celebration ends in tragedy. There is a horrible car accident and soon-to-be senior and talented vocalist Penny Alistair is killed. She was the driver.  Her twin brother, a star athlete and very popular, is in a coma.  The other 2 friends, Jake Randolph from a prominent Nantucket family, and Demeter, an overweight, introverted girl are unhurt but badly shaken.

What happened in the car??

What happened in the dunes before Penny drove the car??

Zoe, the twins' widowed mother (husband and father of the twins died before the twins were born) is devastated by the death of her beloved daughter Penny. They were like close friends and told each other everything. But apparently, Penny had some secrets from Zoe. And Zoe certainly had some secrets from Penny.

Zoe must face some difficult truths about her children. About Penny, now gone from her arms, and about Hobby who faces a long recovery and the end of his athletic career.  

And she must face her own part in all that has happened.

As the summer continues on, Zoe and the other parents (Lynn and Al Castle, Demeter's parents; Jordan and Ava Randolph, Jake's parents, and other parents in the community must ask themselves if protecting their children from the realities of life have left them more vulnerable to those harsh realities.

The key to understanding the car accident stems from what Penny learned that night on the beach.  Will that news destroy the survivors peace??

MY THOUGHTS

I give this novel a huge thumbs up!  I enjoy every single book I've read of Elin Hilderbrand.  She writes family saga type books or books that take place within an entire community and I love them.  I haven't read all of them, but I have read many.  She is very gifted at character development and with describing the setting to a point where you feel like you know the place and people she is writing about.

This book talks about the disease of alcoholism and the issues that teens face with weight struggles, peer pressure or the pressure to conform socially.  It talks about the contemporary parent and the busyness we find ourselves in and perhaps the missing intimacy (emotionally) with our teenagers.

It teaches us about the bonds of family and a small community and how we all have choices......and the consequences of those choices.

It teaches about love and forgiveness and the sanctity of life. (That was a nice surprise....to read a secular novel that was pro-life rather than pro abortion and the reasons WHY!)

I highly recommend this book.

In my opinion, this book is appropriate for ages 15 and older.

On a scale of 1-10, with 10 being the highest, I rate this a 10.



19 May 2013

2013 Book Review #19: Live Intimately


Jesus has one last night to spend with his beloved disciples......his most intimate friends.

He has had three years of ministry, roaming around the countryside, meeting thousands of people....desperate people, hurting people, ailing people, dying people......

and He has brought them a radical message.....one of New Life, New Hope, mercy and grace.......salvation,.

and He leaves us with..........

the promise that He will return and in His earthly place, He sends a spirit....the Holy Spirit, who dwells in all believers.

This book brings a fresh approach to the story of the Last Supper (the last passover meal) and the words Jesus spoke that evening as He served the disciples and prepared them for his death and resurrection.

The small group of moms that I lead has studied this book all school year.  It is an in-depth look at Jesus' last night on this earth in His human form.

The study is such that it felt like we were right there with Jesus in that intimate setting and last evening of fellowship.

This Bible Study is divided into 10 Lessons and each lesson is divided into 5 Days.  Each day has a portion of Scripture based on John 13-John 18:1 & 2.  There is a short anecdote at the start of each Lesson and each Day and then a few questions to answer based on that particular set of verses for the day.  After a few Biblically-based questions, there is a section entitled LIVE OUT with a few more questions to answer based on the thoughts of the authors and/or the verses just read.  This section is used for the small group discussion. (Any of the questions each day can be discussed but this is the way my group did it).  After each opening anecdote there is a short prayer and at the end of each day there is a good summary quote.  Each day takes about 20 minutes to prepare.

The thing that drew me to this book for my group (Got Teens?!) is that it is a very good book at getting us to really examine the things Jesus taught the disciples that evening.  It is humbling in many parts and very convicting in other parts.  The explanations of what Jesus was leaving us with is most excellent.  It is very clear cut and easy to read. It does not read like a heavy theology book but there is SO much depth in this book.  My group will wrap it up by mid-June (I read ahead of the group although I haven't finished all the questions...I will in the next 4 weeks).

I highly recommend this book to any small group leader or any person who wants to grow more intimate with our Savior and Redeemer....and with friends.

It is perfect for women who want a profound, intimate experience studying God's words but don't have an overwhelming amount of time.  With every lesson, you will come to a much deeper understanding of the truth that Jesus left us with.....with what He wanted His friends (and us!) to know and do....and you will develop a deeper intimacy with God.

This book is appropriate for ages 17 and older.

On a scale of 1-10, with 10 being the highest, I rate this a 10.



17 May 2013

Faves that Surprised!

This week flew by!

It was one in which there were lots of "surprises" to the week........so those made my faves list.

Joining in with Susanne to share our five favorite blessings from the past week.

FAVES THAT SURPRISED

image courtesy of the N---C---- school district website
  • PLATINUM!  Our youngest daughter (Claire) traveled with the other members of the Select Chorus (a group of 7th & 8th graders who are chosen by vocal audition) to central MA last Friday for the Great East Music Majors.  They performed the music that they had sung the evening before in the spring concert (mentioned in last week's faves) and earned the highest rating!!  This was a surprise to Claire because, although they earned Platinum last year, she said they probably wouldn't earn it this year.  We are very proud and feel very blessed to be in such a great school district that promotes the arts.  Awesome surprise!

image courtesy of friendofmercy blog
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  • QUICK TRIP WITH A SURPRISE:  my husband and I had to make a quick Saturday afternoon trip out to the central part of the state (the Mohawk Valley, pictured above) to see my dad and do some things with him.  I can't tell you the rest......it's a surprise!  I will be able to share about it next week!!!!  Let's just say this:  it's gonna be a BIG surprise and it was a BIG BLESSING!
  • MOTHER'S DAY BREAKFAST!  My husband totally surprised me by offering to make breakfast (I knew he was gonna take me out to dinner later that day, with Claire).  I thoroughly enjoyed this veggie omelette and toast with blueberry-peach preserves. YUMMY!  We also enjoyed a first time meal at this establishment which is about 35 minutes east of us.....close to the Vermont border. But the best surprise were the cards from Claire and Dave (he even drew me a special ink drawing to match a sentiment he wrote) and the phone call from my college gal!  Loved every minute of my day...I just relaxed and read a book!

our lilac bush in backyard
  • LILACS!  The lilac bush totally surprised me this year.  It bloomed VERY well even though we had a late frost and the scent this year seems particularly intoxicating. I just LOVE it. Sadly, I am a bit allergic to them (I get itchy eyes) and my youngest gets to sneezing, so I have to just put a bunch in the house for a short time.  But they are so lovely to smell and look at.  I tend to sit out in the chaise near the bush and read in the early evening sun......the scent doesn't make my eyes itch when I am outside near the bush.  They are pretty to look at, too!

Our neighborhood
  • SUN!  I was totally surprised to see the sun breaking free of the clouds.....it inspired me to write this on Wednesday evening.

that wraps it up for me!

My college girl (Courtney) is coming home later today........she just finished up her 2nd year at Gordon College. I am so thankful she has a summer job to come home to, and that she will get to be with us for about 2 1/2 months before she heads back to lead a group of freshmen through Orientation Week. We are hoping and praying for a good GPA and can't wait to see her portfolio of her art work from the semester.  I also can't believe she is turning 20 in July.  The time is precious....savor every moment with your children because they grow up and leave the nest so quickly.  The time really does fly when you are a mom.

I hope you all enjoyed a wonderful Mother's Day last Sunday

How about sharing at least one fave of yours from the week?

......and have a great weekend!!


15 May 2013

Breaking Free

driving along doing the mundane, the errands, the after dinner chores..........

grey clouds scudding fast across the sky...........

matching the grey thoughts, the  gloomy mood, the sighs of just another evening doing chores and rushing around...........

and forgetting to thank the One Who allows the rushing around, the One who breathes life into my body, the One who protects my children, my husband............the One who sees all, knows all, is everywhere..........


and then.....................


.................. the breaking free................


the sun pouring out light from behind the shadows of grey.............

...........reminding me of the Son who pours out His Light from around the shadows of my heart........

.............the One who does this continually when I remember to pause.............

................the One who allowed me to break free from those shadows...........

.............and Who continues to break us free....................

.like the sun bursting forth behind the clouds.................our gloomy thoughts and darkened mood and sin-state............can be awash in His Light........

.........to break free..........